Erinn Hoel, Philadelphia Sex Therapist

Psst! Hoel is pronounced “hole”- Hoelistic Health, get it??

It can be tough starting this process of sexploration and self-growth because changing habits is hard.

With so many therapists, blogs, articles, self-help, etc. out there it’s overwhelming knowing where to start. That’s okay because you want to know a secret? You’re not just starting. You’re already well on your way, even if you don’t see that yet.

People come to me when they have tried, sometimes for a loooong time, to make changes that lead to better sex. Maybe you’ve spent a lot of time googling if what you’re feeling or doing is “normal.” Maybe you’ve read every online article you could find promising “Better sex in 5 simple steps!” Maybe you’ve tried, repeatedly, to be more assertive in the bedroom, but it just hasn’t gotten you the results you want.

Can sex therapy in Philadelphia really help?

Yes, because all that work is not for nothing! These experiences have helped you learn about what doesn’t help build a better sex life. That’s great and very helpful! Now you need an expert who knows what it takes to help you find what does and help you unleash this.

Hoelistic Health, LLC

I’m Erinn and I became a sex therapist in Philadelphia because I have long been fascinated by the body; how it functions, what it’s capable of, how everything connects, and how physical and emotional responses affect sexual ones. Your brain communicates with your body constantly about needs, threats, pain, pleasure, etc., even while you sleep!

How cool is that?? But lately, it’s not cool because something has felt off in your sex life.

Another secret is that it’s not just the sex you need to focus on. Spending your time and attention on the sex alone can actually add to the stress and pressure you’re feeling, rather than alleviate it. There are so many factors influencing your sex drive, like your desire type, stress level, relationships, upbringing, etc. We’ll work together so you can see what’s standing in your way of better sex, what you can do to remove these obstacles, and how to increase desire and feel more connected so you can start on your way to better sex today.