The Pleasure Problem: Philadelphia Sex Therapist Reveals Why You Don't Actually Have Low Desire

The Pleasure Problem - It's Not Low Desire

In this eye-opening episode, Philadelphia-based sex therapist Erinn Hoel tackles the most common misconception about female sexuality: the "low libido" myth.

If you've ever:

• Found yourself making excuses to avoid sex

• Wondered why you'd rather fold laundry than get physical

• Felt guilty for not wanting connection with someone you love

• Tried multiple solutions that haven't worked

...then this episode reveals the missing piece that changes everything.

Erinn explains why 75% of women experience responsive (not spontaneous) desire and how misunderstanding this fundamental difference creates unnecessary shame and relationship tension. Using the powerful "restaurant analogy," she illustrates why your body's response isn't broken—it's actually giving you important information.

You'll learn:

• Why pleasure must come before desire (not the other way around)

• How to create your personal Pleasure Inventory

• The game-changing 20-Minute Rule that transforms intimacy

• The biological reasons why traditional sex-focused advice fails most women

This episode provides both the understanding and practical tools to break the avoidance cycle and rediscover genuine desire. Whether you're experiencing occasional disinterest or long-term intimacy avoidance, Erinn's approach addresses the root cause rather than just the symptoms.

Listen now to discover why the path back to desire starts with pleasure, not pressure.

Ready to take the next steps and uplevel connection in your relationship? Book your free call below to learn how to take the next step with Erinn.